While to some – that moment I realized that in due time they themselves survived all that, only with his mother. What brought them up as they now raising their children. But have been unable to present his life to understand it all and could not forgive his parents. Now the same pain inflicted and their children. We live at times, like a zombie, following inherent in us from childhood, program.
Let's live a little conscious, and stop thinking about, why we now want to do just that and say what we want to say at the moment? Maybe so behaved our mother or our father, and now we do not work on himself, living recklessly, not changing, and not to rewrite the parent program? Let's look at another example: – Those who love each other husband and wife. Here they come to visit. Husband, adores his wife, immediately becomes a completely different person: a closed, slightly annoyed and stopped paying attention to his beloved. Sometimes, can say with all her something unpleasant. – It must have it now hurt and offended? After all, like everything them in order, and the house he was caring and attentive husband, and appear as outsiders, it seemed a substitute, it may shamit and , it behaves as if in a dream. Like a stop to realize that next to him a beloved woman.
– What is happening with this man? Begin to "wind off the film back, into his past. And see – here's his father, just as it behaves with his mother, may, at the other to complain about it in their family's mother is not valued and not respected and spoken to in a sarcastic tone. And when he grows up, starts to behave like – just like his father. And here he meets a girl and he treats them the same way, because in his mind as yet there is no other way. But gradually, he begins to dream and imagine that he wants to meet her the only woman! And he begins to understand that he wants to create with her warm and friendly relations.